First incident:
It's afternoon. I'm alone in my car. An old chinese guy knocks on the driver's side window. I rolled down the window just a little. Conversation translated from hokkien:
Old Man: Do you have 20 ringgit?
Me: Huh?
Old Man: I don't have any money and I need to buy food.
(I had two 50 ringgit bills in my wallet at that time)
Me: Uhhh...sorry but I didn't bring out my wallet today.
Old Man: You don't even have like 10 ringgit with you?
Me: Sorry...
Old Man: Okay.
He leaves on his bicycle.
Second incident:
It's about 10:30pm. I'm walking back to my home from Gurney Plaza, alone. The street was void of pedestrians. An indian guy on a motorcycle pulls over and stops me midway. He's in his early 20's and speaks fluent english.
Him: Umm...excuse me, I don't mean to bother you but can you help me?
Me: Yes?
Him: My handphone fell from my pocket and my bike's out of petrol. Can you spare me some money?
(At this time, I had about 15 ringgit and I was wondering what does his handphone falling off have anything to do with his need of money for petrol. Furthermore, I didn't know how much fuel was required to travel a certain distance)
Me: I'm sorry I spent most of my money in Gurney earlier.
Him: Come on, are you saying you don't even have 1 ringgit?
Me: I'm really sorry but I can't help you.
Him: Alright, thanks.
He rides off and I walk back home...fast.
I hardly meet with such incidences and thus I can't distinguish the people who truly need help and those who're faking it. Plus, i've heard stories from my friends who have been conned of their possessions before and so, I was really skeptical. And when I called Jeff later that night to relate the incident he was all like: Yeah what if you whip out your wallet and he snatches it from your hands and scoots away! I do feel a little bad for having to reject their wishes but I do not want to have to risk myself for such meager things. I am sorry but I have no regrets.
If the same thing happened to you, what would you have done? Have you had any similar experiences?
On a seperate note, guess who I spotted folding clothes and wishing 'Welcome' to customers!
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It's Jeremy! And he's working in F.O.S. in Gurney Plaza! His supervisor was apparently away so we talked until he didn't even wish the following customers 'welcome'. Then we walked around in the shop and he abandoned his duties (if he had any) to become my personal shopper...muahaha. He would tell me which ones are new arrivals and which ones are popular among the shoppers and stuff like that. Then summore let me use his employee's discount. I sure hope he doesn't get fired for doing all that! Haha.
8 comments:
be careful next time.. normally if I see someone I dunno coming my way, I'll just walk away quickly and pretend I dont hear them if they try to talk to me...
ignore them...just don't go care..seriously from what i know....our own safety comes first. it's not that we are selfish or rude...no matter what happen, act confidently, stern and a little "nasty" look..that will work!!
remember me and wat happened to my handphone .... seriously, it pays to be nice nowadays ... so if u wanna be kind just go ahead n donate some money to me ..... god knows im in a bad financial situation
I know right. Thank you
Hmmm Justin, Do not freed or be scared of them. Try to apply some of these tips in the future if you encounter this kind of situation again. Try to ignore them if you can, but I do understand at times you cant. If you cant, try to distance yourself from them. Do not stand to near to them where they can grab hold of you. Second, try to speak a bit louder, so the public notice that something is not right. Thrird of all the best answer you can give to those person is tell them to go to the nearest police station. Maybe they will find great help over there. The Indian guy maybe get a ride home to his house or where the hell he wants to go in the police car. Nobody are being harm and it doesnt involve any money at all. The food case leh, you can either lie or what I normally do is i give them some money but not the amount they want. RM 2 or 5. Take it or leave it begger.
thanks a million!
Anyway... as I was saying... a couple of days before I left, I was supposed to go out to Queensbay with Kelvin Goh and gang. As I came downstairs to wait for them, this Indian guy came up to me and asked me for some cash to buy petrol for his motorbike saying he'd return it to me later as his sister would give him the cash. Highly suspicious I thought. But what could I do? I couldn't leave because I had to wait for them and he kept pestering me. It was also a bit pitiful, he seemed so desperate. I vacillated (about 15-20 minutes... could've been longer) and then Kelvin and the rest came over. I tried to get past him but he kept pestering me. End of it, I just gave him 10 bucks (he wanted 23) and ran off. Got nagged by Kelvin and Kelvin in the car... then that was the end of it...
Not sure if it was genuine or not... seeing as he didn't even have a motorcycle with him... he said he parked it on the opposite side of the main road... and at one point he actually wanted me to go with him to see it... I didn't of course...
UGH!! No way will I give them money... you did the right thing!!
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